Tag: healing
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When You Were the One Who Pulled Away
Healing Avoidant Attachment in the Runner-Chaser Dynamic In the previous article, we explored the experience of the one who stayed – the anxious partner – in the runner-chaser dynamic. In this piece, we turn toward the other side of the same pattern: the one who pulled away. We established earlier that the anxious-avoidant dynamic is…
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When You Were the One Who Stayed
Healing Anxious Attachment in the Runner-Chaser Dynamic There is a particular kind of heartbreak that does not end with a dramatic goodbye. No final conversation. No fighting. No clear closure. Just…silence. You continue functioning. You show up at work. You respond to messages. You move through your day, but internally, something has collapsed. You were…
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4 Letter Words for Diwali!
I am on top of the mountain. Fairy lights are winking at me in the valley below. I imagine gentle laughter and the sound of tiny tinkling bells drifting up from them. Here I am surrounded by angels, I think! Or maybe my inner voice speaks. There are messages for me. And maybe for you. Listen.…
The Right to be Wrong 